What a day at AAC! I spent the whole day in male adoptee workshops. This has grown over the last 8 years from one session with just a handful of male adoptees to 3 sessions with close to 20. And for the first time, there were concurrent female adoptee sessions followed by a joint session for all adoptees.

The sense of brotherhood felt among the men is strong, especially among those who have been attending for many years. This year, at least 10 new male adoptees participated and all were happy to be there, some surprised by the depth of feelings coming up. 

In the first session, we did the traditional fishbowl: half the time, male adoptees discuss our issues with others just listening. Then questions are asked by others in the room, often first parents trying to get a sense of what their sons are going through.

The second session we discussed spirituality in relation to adoption issues. This was initiated last year and proved to be an insightful and provocative session.

The third session is closed. Male adoptees only. Not recorded. Our chance to really let loose. So I can't report any of that!

Then for the first time ever, the joint session with the female adoptees where we compared and contrasted issues. About 75 people attended this and it was great to delve into issues common to both and unique to both.

Between all that and Jean Strauss's amazing film and Zara Phillip's artful film, and the open mic readings, I am feeling amazed by and grateful for all the talented and passionate people in this community. I am also drained and must rest up for the next incredible day.